Tag: respect

Love Like You Mean It: A Call to Action

If you are going to love, love like you mean it. Don’t wait until tomorrow to say how you feel, because tomorrow isn’t promised. Tell that person that you care. Look them in the eyes and really see them. Kiss them without fear, but instead a passion that burns deep inside of you. Have gratitude for what you have in this very moment. Do not be afraid to be vulnerable and fragile, because the right hands will be delicate enough to navigate all of that with compassion. Be honest, kind, and meaningful with your words, say what you mean and mean what you say. Love like there is no tomorrow, like you only have this present moment right now and the best thing you have ever seen is standing right in front of you. If you are going to love, love like there is no one else, like you are addicted to their touch, the sound of their laughter, and that smile that lights up a room. Love like they are your fairytale, and that life without them doesn’t even exist.

Love like you have never been hurt or had a broken heart. Love like you have never given it your all only to have lies and deceit tossed in your face. Love like you have not watched someone you thought you loved become a perfect stranger. Love like you have never watched a relationship unravel in front of your eyes. Love like you have never experienced the most volatile toxic behavior that made you question your sanity. Love like you have never been disappointed because someone filled your head with hopes and dreams, but delivered a nightmare. Do not half love or kind of commit. Do not love with a wondering eye and loose lips. Do not love only on the days it is convenient for you. Do not love with the intention to hurt or betray someone. Do not love with no accountability for poor words and actions. Love with everything you have in you, because what else is there to really do in this life?

Love conquers all. It begins and ends with you. Love someone with your whole heart. Show them the good, the bad, and the ugly. Be your true authentic unapologetic self. Love like the world will end tomorrow. Love when times are tough and emotions are running high. Love even though we live in a world full of hate and divide. Love enough to ugly cry in front of them. Love through your words, actions, and choices. If you are going to love, love with purpose. Love with intention. Love like you are committed to creating a beautiful life with them. Love waking up next to them, because their mere presence brings so much peace and happiness. Love like your heart is finally in a safe place. Be love. Give love. Accept love. Just love.

Reason, Season, or Lifetime: Understanding People in Our Lives

Life is a journey marked by various chapters, each bringing new beginnings, experiences, and people into our lives. Some individuals stay for only a short while, while others become permanent fixtures. Understanding why people enter our lives, whether for a reason, a season, or a lifetime, can profoundly impact our path of self-discovery, self-reflection, and our understanding of love.

People for a Reason: People who come into our lives for a specific reason often serve to fulfill a need we have expressed, consciously, or unconsciously. They may provide guidance, support, or help during challenging times. These relationships are often temporary, but they are crucial for our growth.

People for a Season: Seasonal relationships often correspond with certain periods in our lives. They bring joy, growth, and new experiences, helping us learn more about ourselves and the world around us. These relationships are marked by their transformative nature, even though they may not last forever.

People for a Lifetime: This is the rarest type of relationship and should be considered precious. These are the people who stand by us through thick and thin, offering unwavering support and understanding. Such connections are not without their challenges, but the mutual commitment and respect ensure that these relationships endure.

Understanding the transient nature of some relationships helps us appreciate their purpose without clinging to them unnecessarily. When we recognize that certain people are meant to be in our lives only temporarily, we can accept their departure with positivity and gratitude. This mindset allows us to move forward and embrace new beginnings with an open heart. It is essential to remember that all relationships, whether fleeting or lifelong, require commitment and respect. A relationship you truly value should be nurtured with effort and care. Love may be blind, but true friendship is clairvoyant, it sees and understands beyond the surface. Now it is time to embrace the journey. Clarity about why people enter or leave our lives can lead to profound self-reflection and growth. When our needs are met and our desires fulfilled, it’s often time to move on. Time is our most precious asset, and it should be spent with those who enrich us with contentment, laughter, love, and lightness of heart.

Whether someone is in your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime, be grateful for the learning gift they bring. Each person’s role is indispensable, and their presence, good or bad, contributes to your journey. Value these experiences as God sent opportunities for growth and understanding. In the series of chapters in life, each brings us unique individuals for a specific purpose. By understanding the roles these people play, either for a reason, a season, or a lifetime, we can navigate our journey with greater clarity, gratitude, and positivity. Cherish the relationships that last and appreciate those that come and go, for each one leaves an indelible mark on your heart and soul.