Tag: peace

Love Like You Mean It: A Call to Action

If you are going to love, love like you mean it. Don’t wait until tomorrow to say how you feel, because tomorrow isn’t promised. Tell that person that you care. Look them in the eyes and really see them. Kiss them without fear, but instead a passion that burns deep inside of you. Have gratitude for what you have in this very moment. Do not be afraid to be vulnerable and fragile, because the right hands will be delicate enough to navigate all of that with compassion. Be honest, kind, and meaningful with your words, say what you mean and mean what you say. Love like there is no tomorrow, like you only have this present moment right now and the best thing you have ever seen is standing right in front of you. If you are going to love, love like there is no one else, like you are addicted to their touch, the sound of their laughter, and that smile that lights up a room. Love like they are your fairytale, and that life without them doesn’t even exist.

Love like you have never been hurt or had a broken heart. Love like you have never given it your all only to have lies and deceit tossed in your face. Love like you have not watched someone you thought you loved become a perfect stranger. Love like you have never watched a relationship unravel in front of your eyes. Love like you have never experienced the most volatile toxic behavior that made you question your sanity. Love like you have never been disappointed because someone filled your head with hopes and dreams, but delivered a nightmare. Do not half love or kind of commit. Do not love with a wondering eye and loose lips. Do not love only on the days it is convenient for you. Do not love with the intention to hurt or betray someone. Do not love with no accountability for poor words and actions. Love with everything you have in you, because what else is there to really do in this life?

Love conquers all. It begins and ends with you. Love someone with your whole heart. Show them the good, the bad, and the ugly. Be your true authentic unapologetic self. Love like the world will end tomorrow. Love when times are tough and emotions are running high. Love even though we live in a world full of hate and divide. Love enough to ugly cry in front of them. Love through your words, actions, and choices. If you are going to love, love with purpose. Love with intention. Love like you are committed to creating a beautiful life with them. Love waking up next to them, because their mere presence brings so much peace and happiness. Love like your heart is finally in a safe place. Be love. Give love. Accept love. Just love.

Trusting the Universe: Divine Timing and New Beginnings

Life has a mysterious way of unfolding in ways we can’t predict or control. Often, when we are stuck in toxic patterns or clinging to the past, we forget that the universe has its own plan, one governed by divine timing. Trusting in this divine flow can feel like stepping into the unknown, but it is through this process that we discover personal growth, meaningful connections, and the peace we have been longing for. There is something profoundly glorious about the idea that everything unravels exactly as it should, even if it doesn’t align with our personal timelines. When you lean into divine timing, you free yourself from the pressure of forcing things to happen. Instead, you open yourself up to the magic of receiving what is meant for you. This requires patience and trust, by doing this you allow the natural course of life to carry you to new beginnings and greater possibilities.

The gift of loving yourself is priceless, this allows you to attract the love you are destined for. When we talk about soulmates, many people automatically think of romantic partnerships. The truth is, soulmates come in various forms like friends, mentors, or people who offer life-changing lessons. A soulmate is someone who connects with your soul on a deep spiritual level. They see you in ways others cannot, and they challenge you to grow and evolve. Sometimes, these connections will push you into the unknown, away from your comfort zone, and toward your true path. It’s in these relationships that divine timing works its magic, helping you heal old wounds, discover new facets about yourself, and step into your highest potential. To be open to receive this, there is another important part that is perhaps most challenging, letting go of a toxic past. The grip of the past can be powerful, only preventing you from embracing new beginnings. Healing begins when you release the belief that the past defines you. Forgiveness plays a major role here and we must remember forgive ourselves for the times we stayed too long, held on too tightly, or doubted our worth. By letting go you are able to reclaim your power. You allow space for peace to replace the chaos of what once was, and in doing so, you pave the way for new, healthier experiences to enter your life.

There is an undeniable beauty in starting over. New beginnings may feel daunting at first because they require us to step into unfamiliar territory. What we fail to see is that within the unknown lies limitless potential. Whether it’s a new relationship, career, or personal journey, new beginnings give you the opportunity to redefine yourself. Instead of carrying the weight of your past into these new chapters, try embracing them with an open heart and mind. A fresh start is an invitation from the universe to become a better version of yourself. Trust that as you align with divine timing and letting go of what no longer serves you, it will bring you one step closer to your true self and your soul’s purpose. When we choose peace over chaos, it is a conscious decision to prioritize your well-being and mental health over the noise and negativity of the past. It is about setting boundaries, honoring your needs, and allowing yourself to rest in the stillness of life. By choosing peace you align yourself with a positive energetic flow. You stop rushing and start trusting, You stop settling for less and demanding more. Most importantly, you create space for love, joy, and soul deep connections to flourish in your life. Life is an intricate dance between holding on and letting go. As you release old toxic patterns of the past and open yourself to love, you will find peace is no longer something you chase, it becomes a natural state of being. Trust the timing of your life. What’s meant for you will arrive at the right moment, not a minute sooner, and not a second too late.

Discovering the Missing Link: Navigating Life’s Peaks and Valleys Together

In the journey of life, there will come a time when you stumble upon something truly magical, something that may feel like the missing piece of a puzzle you didn’t even know existed. This missing piece may come unexpectedly, challenging you in ways you can’t even cognitively comprehend, yet deep within your soul you feel there is an unbreakable connection. In the broad scope of love and relationships you could compare this feeling or experience to discovering a rare gem amidst the vast expanse of life’s experiences. This connection transcends superficialities and delves into the depth of our actual being. As beautiful as this all may sound, the path to nurturing and sustaining this connection is not always smooth. Life has a funny way of throwing in twists and turns, which can lead us into challenges and hardships. Past traumas and emotional scars from previous relationships or the past in general may haunt you, casting a shadow of doubt and fear into your present or future. Yet, when we find that missing link, we realize that we are not alone in our struggles. You find that you have someone that understands, empathizes, and is willing to walk beside you in the darkest of times. The key part to joining forces and it working out, is confronting your demons and facing your fears head-on. Together you learn to dismantle the walls you have built about your heart, brick by brick, until you are able to stand vulnerable yet empowered in the presence of your beloved. It is not always easy, there are peaks and valleys along the way. It is in those moments of adversity that the bond grows stronger, forged in the fires of resilience and determination.

The thing that sets this relationship apart from any other is simply the mutual desire to become better versions of yourselves. It is not about complacency or settling for mediocrity, it is about striving for excellence, both individually and as a couple. I challenge you and your partner to step outside of your comfort zones, knowing well and good you have each other’s backs no matter what. That is when you will really see each other for who you are. There is a saying that we have all heard about being loved and accepted at your absolute worst, that is when you are able to see a person’s true intentions. How they react, comfort you, try to understand and communicate with you, this is the test. When we find the missing link, we are willing to do whatever it takes to continue to build and sustain that connection. You will communicate more openly unlike ever before, laying bare to your hopes, dreams, and fears while prioritizing each other’s well-being, offering support and encouragement in times of need. Celebrate each other’s victories, no matter how small, knowing that every triumph brings you closer together. Most importantly, never lose sight of the fact that your relationship is the catalyst for growth and transformation. Embrace the journey, with all of its ups and downs, knowing that together, you will become stronger than the sum of your parts.

So, to those still seeking to find their missing link, I urge you to keep the faith. Trust that somewhere out there in this beautiful, chaotic, uncertain life, there is someone who will light up your world in ways you never thought were possible. And when you do find them, hold on tight, for you are about to embark on the greatest adventure of your life.

Embracing the Unforeseen: The Real Journey

Have you ever experienced moments where life takes an unexpected turn, catapulting you into a realm of boundless possibilities? It is almost as if the universe or a being more powerful than ourselves is actually conspiring in your favor, unveiling a reality of beyond your wildest dreams. I found myself on such a journey, where the familiar terrain of certainty dissolved, and the horizon expanded to reveal the extraordinary. There was a time when I believed I had life tightly packaged, each step meticulously planned, every outcome fairly predictable. The crazy part is life has a way of surprising us, shaking the foundations of our existence, and leading us down paths we never imagined experiencing. It was the in the midst of one such seismic shift that I discovered the profound beauty of embracing the unknown. As my world underwent a complete metamorphosis, I found myself immersed in experiences I had only dared to dream of. Manifestations once whispered in the quiet space in my mind began to materialize before my very eyes. It was as though the universe, in its infinite wisdom and glory, had been listening intently to the true desires of my heart, weaving them into the fabric of reality. With each passing moment, I continued to find myself enveloped in a sense of joy and fulfillment that surpassed anything I had ever known. The happiness that began to flow through me was not merely fleeting, but a profound and enduring state of being. This happiness was not born just from external circumstances, but from a deep sense of alignment with my true self. As my frequency soared to new heights, I became attuned to the pulsating energy of the universe, each heartbeat echoing with the promise of infinite possibilities. I reveled in the synchronicities that danced across my path, each one a gentle reminder of the interconnectedness of all things.

While embracing this newfound reality, I discovered that true happiness lies not in the destination, but in the journey itself. It is the moments of uncertainty, the twists and turns of fate, that we find the raw material from which our dreams, wants, and desires are sculpted. If you find yourself on the precipice of change, uncertain of what lies beyond, I offer these words of encouragement: Embrace the unknown with open arms, within these depths lie the keys to unlocking a reality more beautiful than you could ever imagine. Trust the wisdom of the universe or a higher power you put your faith in, and allow yourself to be swept away in the currents of transformation. It is the surrender to the unknown that we truly come alive. Everything that you once knew to be true, simply becomes a distant memory when you start living the reality you were meant to thrive in. There is a path already designed for each of us, within you lies the power and strength to navigate it, you must find this and harness it. That is when the real journey begins.

From Your Valentine

Love is the divine vitality that everywhere produces and restores life. 

Thanks to both Christian and ancient Roman tradition we celebrate this day of love in honor of St. Valentine. There are a few legends that surround this holiday that are perhaps a little too grim and gory to dive into. The one thing that each legend has in common is all three saints were martyred. Point being even in A.D. 270, people were throwing themselves on the sword in the name of love. It is alleged that prior to his death, Valentine wrote a letter to a girl he had fallen for and signed it “From your Valentine,” an expression that is used to this very day.

Present day, this glorified holiday is a time to express one’s feelings and exchange tokens of affection. Whether you are in a relationship or flying solo these days you should take the time to celebrate. In a matter of fact, you should celebrate the love you have for yourself and others everyday. I recently read something that resonated so highly, it was about looking back on your life and realizing the moments when you have truly lived, were the moments you had done things in the spirit of love. It is so true, when your heart is in the right place and you are leading with love, life is just seamless. Today can also be a time to reflect internally. If you are one that scowls at the thought of this day or love in general, maybe it is time to focus your energy on the people and things you surround yourself with. Ask yourself this one simple question. Is what you are doing benefiting you mentally, emotionally, and physically? If you hesitated for even a second, it is time to clean house. As hard as it may be to cut ties with people or things that do not serve you, trust me when I say it is always worth it. Life is way too short and precious to waste time, and time my friends is the one thing that we can never get back. Each waking second is a chance to start over, and see that you are amazing and deserve everything this world has to offer. Making your needs a priority is your first step. This requires you to really take a step back and ask yourself what makes you happy and truly brings you peace. Sometimes, we find ourselves in a place where we are unsure of what actually makes us happy because of the heartache or grief we have experienced. It is also common to become comfortable and complacent with the bare minimum when it comes to relationships with others as well as ourselves. In my opinion, that is the most dangerous place to be. My advice is jump out of your comfort zone, be spontaneous, and focus solely on yourself for a bit. You will find your way back, and by then all of the things you once thought were important will simply be a memory or a reminder of a place you never want to visit again. Start practicing self-care daily. Go for walk, soak up the sunshine, eat a healthy meal, spend time with those that inspire you. Whatever it is you choose to do, just start doing the things you love more often. 

Optical Illusion: The Flag is Red

Illusion can be defined as something that deceives or misleads intellectually. At times we tend to see only what we want to see, whether it be in ourselves, others, our jobs, or our social circles. I can say with complete conviction I have taken a long hard look in the mirror a few times and I did not know who I was looking at. I have seen someone I was so disgusted by in that mirror and I have also seen a beautiful boss bitch ready to conquer the world. It is unsettling and unbeknownst to us this is simply our brains misinterpreting and misleading us of what is actually real. When it comes to illusions, we can be experiencing sensory stimulus, but it is simply an interpretation that contradicts objective reality. A good example of this is in relationships, we often seen those vibrant red flags waving right in front of our eyes, and we choose to look the other way. We then create in our minds a version of what we want to see or who we want them to be. Personally, I can say that I am guilty of this and I have definitely danced on the fine line between illusion and delusion when talking about relationships. To be clear illusions are perceptual and delusions are belief disturbances. I hope to think that most of us are just born with a good heart and understand love and empathy. That was my first mistake, creating an illusion that others could love the way I love, love me the way I deserved to be loved, and be empathetic to my feelings as well as others. You can say it was hope and assumptions. We all know what happens we start assuming things. 

In my life I have done this in past relationships. I would start by making excuses, see more red flags, ignore them (insert self-hatred right about here), then magically my perception of said person would be grandiose, when in reality they were the absolute worst in every single way you could think of. Now, in reality-ville I see very clearly that my self-worth was not present, there was zero self-love, making it impossible to even love someone else, and I was creating a version of what I truly wanted that person to be even though that was completely impossible. This is what I mean by the fine line of illusion and delusion. I created something that wasn’t real because I could not accept the fact that this person was so far from checking any of the boxes that I now place the upmost importance on, and I actually believed that they could turn a new leaf or simply not be a complete piece of shit. I am not just talking about intimate relationships either, this goes for friends, family, co-workers, whoever. I am here to tell you this is just a small piece of the self-love jigsaw puzzle, because when the day comes that you do have that moment of enlightenment any of this crazy nonsense literally becomes irrelevant to your life. When you start vibing so high, leading with love and positivity, affirming you are absolutely amazing every single day, and can look in the mirror and say you are beautiful and I love you and actually whole heartedly mean it, that is when you begin to mirror power and confidence. The wild thing about exuding power and confidence is it attracts more power and confidence. The old life you once knew of dating or befriending liars, manipulators, cheaters, abusers, straight losers is over. That type of person wants someone who is weak-minded, has zero self-worth, and quite simply someone that is easy to take advantage of. In all actuality, those people are the mirrors of no self-worth, self-love, ambition, empathy, self awareness, I could go on forever. Moral of the story: love yourself so much and walk with such positive power that there is no chance on God’s green earth that one of those nefarious humans could ever come near you again.

It’s a Vibe: The Law of Attraction, The Law of Vibration, and Manifestation

The concept that we are all magnetic forces of energy roaming the earth was hard for me to grasp in the beginning of my journey. I always understood when I would hear someone say something about what we put out into the universe or the world is what we get back. I didn’t understand the actual weight of that phrase until I dove deeply into manifestation, meditation, mantras, the Law of Attraction, and the Law of Vibration. The power of the universe is wildly heavy and when you fully grasp what you are capable of you become limitless. I know this concept is hard for some to cognitively wrap their head around, there were moments during my journey where I had to question it. Scientifically, researchers have found that vibrations and electromagnetic energy associated within humans causes changes in our cells, which can then effect how your body functions. Different molecules vibrate at different rates and those rates can speed up or slow down if conditions around the molecules change. At the most basic level, everything in the universe is made up of energy and according to the Law of Vibration everything in the universe is in a constant state of movement. The speed or rate at which something vibrates is called frequency. 

I am sure at one point or another you have heard most of these words and either thought to yourself this is hocus pocus nonsense or you were like me and thought ok that makes perfect sense. I started to fill my brain with every bit of knowledge possible on the laws, manifestation, meditation, breathwork, the power of the universe, and mantras. I read countless books, I listened to audiobooks, podcasts, I followed specific people across all social media platforms that specialize in this to learn as much as my mind, body, and soul could absorb. I came across the book “The Secret” during my plunge into the findings of the universe and all it holds. If you know, you know. If you do not, please go read it. This really focused on the Law of Attraction which is based upon your thoughts and feelings as to what you attract into your life. However, you cannot apply this law without understanding the Law of Vibration. This is the primary law because vibration is what causes attraction. To simplify this, your thoughts are vibrating at a particular frequency, this is attached to your feelings, and it is the combination of the those that dictate your body’s vibration. If you are vibrating at a high level you are generally positive, optimistic, open to love, experience joy and happiness throughout all aspects of your life. If you are vibrating at a low level you most likely talk negatively to yourself and others, you are anxious, frustrated, angry, and live with fear. As the law works you simply cannot attract joy when you live in fear and anxiety. Luckily, by choosing your vibration, you can use the law to link up with anything you want and desire. Start by finding the energy and feelings you enjoy. Begin to visualize the things you want in life, use affirmations, mantras, or vision boards. The choice is truly up to you. Whatever it is you choose, make sure that you align your thoughts, feelings, and actions so that they are all operating at the same frequency. This is when both laws work in harmony and the real magic happens. Attract who you are not just what you want. Aligning yourself with likeminded people during this time is also very important. Your vibe actually does attract your tribe. Vibe high and the opportunities will be endless.